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OOooohh yes, I'm going THERE - scheduling sex. A perennial hot topic in the world of sex education, and advice I'm sure you've heard before. But what I hear back when I suggest this in coaching is, scheduling sex doesn't work(!!!!). And, you know what? I agree with you. Scheduling sex successfully requires wanting the sex that you are planning time for. If you are not looking forward to the sex you're going to have, then you just made yourself another meeting that you

In Western cultures, there is a commonly-held belief that sexual desire is a drive, like hunger and thirst. That desire is a spontaneous, urgent experience that must be fulfilled. We see you, Wuthering Heights But. That is just the culture’s idea of sexual desire. I talk to a lot of folks who believe they must have spontaneous, out-of-the-blue, spark-y desire, that this is The One True Way, but good news; we're humans, we're unique, and we all work differently from one