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OOooohh yes, I'm going THERE - scheduling sex. A perennial hot topic in the world of sex education, and advice I'm sure you've heard before. But what I hear back when I suggest this in coaching is, scheduling sex doesn't work(!!!!). And, you know what? I agree with you. Scheduling sex successfully requires wanting the sex that you are planning time for. If you are not looking forward to the sex you're going to have, then you just made yourself another meeting that you

A lot of folks believe that the path to better sex, The Best Sex™️, is by learning how to do that one amazing thing that will blow any partner's mind. Oh, if only it were that easy. 😮‍💨 Sexual skills matter, but, not more than any other skill in sex. And tbh, most sex education coaching is actually communication coaching, and that includes the conversations we have with ourselves. My clients, all of them, come to me with limiting beliefs about what they should! and s

Touch is such an important part of satisfying sex, from start to finish. But touch can be super fraught, especially when initiating sex. I often hear from clients that it's too much to just say they want to have sex (due to social conditioning, prior rejection, underdeveloped communication skills, etc. etc.). So, instead of being verbally direct, they try to hint through body language, especially through touch. But when you try to convey your intentions using touch — and